Here at the White Barn at Spain Ranch, we like to say, "it is okay to bypass tradition on your wedding day." It is okay to skip the bouquet/garter toss or skip having a bridal party. If you panic at the thought of dancing in front of people, skip the first dance. Don't feel like you have to do something at your wedding just because it's a tradition if it isn't your style. Don't feel like you need to have a rustic wedding because you've booked a barn venue in Oklahoma. You can have a modern or boho wedding instead. You don't have to follow tradition or theme. It's your and your future spouse's day and no one else's. In reverse, it's totally okay to be traditional and have an entirely traditional wedding. At the end of the day, it's your wedding, you do you!
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